Take the Ultimate Challenge.
Do it for your kids.
Every psychologist, therapist, counselor, social worker, even doctor, will tell you that unforgiveness is the root of your and anger and bitterness.
Many people have experienced tremendous freedom by writing a letter to their ex partner, ex spouse to forgive them for the ways that they were hurt from the relationship. True forgiveness requires forgiving 2 people. First, you must forgive the person that hurt you and then you must forgive yourself for the way you changed and destructive behaviors that you started to live with as a result of the unforgiveness.
Here is a great challenge.
In fact, it might be the greatest challenge for the entire course.
Might be the greatest challenge in your life.
You’ll never regret it.
I’ve never heard a single person say, “I regret forgiving my ex.”
(Understanding that forgiveness does not require reconciliation! It just means that person no longer controls you!)
Congratulations to you, if you have already done this. I challenge you to write your forgiveness letter to your ex. Then I challenge you to write Yourself a letter where you forgive yourself. If you would like, you are more than welcome to send this letter to me and I will attach my email link to make it simple.
Some people mail the letter to their ex. Other people allow a pastor or therapist or Friend to read the letter. Some people burn or shred or throw the letter away. The letter being read by our ex is not as important as you simply letting GO of the pain.
If you have chosen to be one of the brave and courageous souls (like myself), who have taken this journey and climbed the mountain of forgiveness on behalf of your children, I congratulate you and I thank you!